27 Essential Tips For Parents When Traveling With Kids

Traveling with kids can be an incredibly rewarding experience, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. Whether you’re planning a family vacation or visiting relatives, preparation is key to ensuring a smooth and enjoyable trip. Here are some practical tips for parents to make traveling with children easier, safer, and more fun

1. Balancing adventure with predictability. Traveling with kids requires more than logistical planning—it’s about understanding the emotional and psychological rhythms of your child. Parents should consider how their child reacts to new environments, changes in routine, and the demands of travel. “Balancing the desire for adventure with the need for predictability is crucial,” says Brooke Sprowl, psychotherapist and Founder and Clinical Director of My LA Therapy. A thoughtful itinerary that allows for flexibility—moments of rest amidst exploration—can make the experience enriching for everyone.”
2. Turn anxiety into anticipation. Asking kids open-ended questions about the trip or what excites them can turn anxiety into anticipation says Sprowl. It also helps pass the time meaningfully.
3. Cultivate curiosity. Instead of trying to distract kids, cultivate an atmosphere of curiosity and creativity. Simple tasks, like solving a small puzzle or drawing, can anchor their attention. Offering children rotating activities—whether a book, a new toy, or a quiet game—can help pace their experience says Sprowl.
4. Don’t over plan. Over-planning is one of the easiest traps for traveling parents. “Too many activities crammed into a day can lead to sensory overload, not just for the kids but for parents as well,” says Sprowl. It’s essential to create space for the unexpected—a slow morning or an unplanned afternoon break can often be more restorative than ticking off another sight. Avoiding high-pressure expectations and embracing spontaneity allows for a more fluid and enjoyable experience.
5. Pros and cons of a kid’s club. A kid’s club can offer a dual benefit: giving parents a moment of reprieve while offering children a new environment for play and exploration. The upside lies in giving children the chance to interact with peers, participate in activities designed just for them, and stepping into a structured setting that isn’t parent-driven. “However, not all children thrive in unfamiliar social settings, and it’s important to gauge their comfort level,” says Sprowl. “It’s less about offloading responsibility and more about whether your child feels secure enough to enjoy the experience.”
6. Pick activities that foster connection and a sense of wonder. Nature-based activities—whether it’s collecting seashells on the beach or walking through a forest trail—can offer calm and engagement, with the added benefit of physical movement. Sprowl points out that experiences that encourage hands-on interaction, like children’s museums or cultural workshops, provide opportunities for learning through play, while still allowing children the freedom to engage at their own pace.
7. Know what to skip. When planning activities, consider how your child naturally engages with the world. Long, sit-down meals or events that require extended periods of stillness can lead to frustration. “High-adrenaline or sensory-heavy experiences, while tempting, can sometimes overwhelm rather than excite, especially for younger or more sensitive children,” says Sprowl. “It’s worth considering the emotional demands of each activity and whether they align with your child’s temperament.”
8. Give yourself grace. When parents feel overwhelmed, it’s a signal to pause, breathe, and recalibrate expectations. Parents should allow themselves moments of grace, understanding that travel can be both joyous and taxing. Taking turns with a partner to manage the kids, or finding small moments of mindfulness—whether it’s stepping outside for fresh air or taking a few deep breaths—can make a significant difference. “Letting go of the notion of a perfect vacation opens up space for the imperfect yet beautiful moments of connection that often arise unexpectedly,” says Sprowl.
9. Accept unpredictability. The essence of traveling with kids lies in the acceptance that plans will shift, moods will change, and the journey will be unpredictable. “The true reward comes not from perfectly executed plans, but from the moments of shared discovery and joy that emerge when you allow space for imperfection,” says Sprowl. “Creating a rhythm of adventure and rest, of togetherness and personal time, will help everyone feel more grounded and connected on the trip.”
10. Set reasonable expectations. One of the biggest things to consider is the value of setting your expectations. Travel is supposed to be fun. Time away with our family is supposed to be fun. “But traveling with children can pose unique challenges and it is important to set reasonable expectations and to plan for flexibility,” says Jillian Amodio a licensed therapist (LMSW), founder of Mom‘s for Mental Health and psychology professor.
11. Plan ahead. Sometimes kids can be overwhelmed because they don’t know what’s coming next. Planning ahead, especially if this is your little one’s first flight can help ease anxiety and uncertainty. “Watch videos and read books, about travel, and maybe even take a visit to the airport to watch planes taking off and see the hustle and bustle of what travel looks like,” suggests Amodio.
12. Bring comfort items. Favorite blankets and stuffed animals, headphones, favorite snacks—bringing familiar items, especially on the plane, can go a long way in keeping emotions in check. And remember, we are the emotional barometer for our children, if we are stressed and anxious, they will pick up on that too. “Take a breath and remind yourself that you and your kids to deserve to be here,” says Amodio. “Praise what goes well, and remember that if little hiccups occur, discomfort is only temporary.”
13. Leave plenty of time. Avoid extra stress by leaving early. It is better to spend time finding something to do than to rush out the door in a panic and risk missing flights or other deadlines. There are a lot of things that we can’t change, focus on what is within your control and let the rest play out,” says Amodio.
14. Balance the needs of all your kids. Think about the likes and dislikes of each family member and try to build in opportunities each person will enjoy.
15. Whenever possible, buy refundable tickets. “Anything nonrefundable or inflexible can cause stress and struggle when traveling with young kids,” says Amodio.
16. Don’t forget to have “me” time. Family vacations are wonderful for spending time together but it is important to set aside time for yourself to relax and unwind as well. Plan an activity for just you if you can. Amodio suggests things like adjoining rooms, family suites, or even a private space like a balcony—it can offer you a space to take some time away if needed.
17. Electronics have their place. Sometimes the best solution for a long plane ride is the screen. “My husband and I typically switch off between who sits in the row of three with our two kids and who gets time to relax on their own,” says Gilly Kahn, PhD a clinical psychologist based in Atlanta, Georgia. Giving the kids electronics, especially siblings who tend to fight, often is the most peaceful way to resolve plane chaos.
18. Don’t forget. You’ll definitely want to pack one full change of clothes for each child in case they spill their drink or get themselves dirty while on the plane. Also, avoid traveling during the hours that your youngest child is most irritable or sensitive. Says Dr. Kahn: “My kids do not fare well when they skip their naps. My husband and I try hard to schedule flights around our kids’ nap times.”
19. Make sure you pick activities with an “out.” Sometimes you think your kids will love the two-hour horseback ride, but after 30 minutes they are done. Pick activities that are short and sweet and can end early. “My husband and I have taken our two young kids for hikes, but we make sure they are short and that we can park near the trail in case we decide to leave,” says Dr. Kahn.
20. If possible, tag team with your partner. “It’s really important to work with your partner as a team and to switch off on which parent needs to be on,” says Dr. Kahn. “I like having a clear plan with my husband because we often do things differently in our parenting, and I want to respect him when he is the one who is in charge. So rather than argue about how to do things, we typically take turns.”
21. Avoid too many sit-down restaurants. Especially if your kids are young and fidgety, it’s best to have a balance of picnic/to go/quicker food options with a few sit-down restaurants thrown in. Also, for small children, it’s best to order as soon as you sit down.
22. Pack “what if” items. “Assume something will go wrong,” says Suzanne Barchers, Ed.D., the education advisory board chair at Lingokids, an educational platform for children ages 2-8. Pack “what if” items, such as children’s Tylenol, sanitizing wipes, extra clothes, anti-itch cream, Band-Aids, extra masks. “If your child is prone to ear infections, have a talk with your doctor about possible issues when flying,” she advises.
23. Research some fun facts about the area you’ll be visiting. If you’ll be driving through several states, find out what is unique to the state. If going through an airport, look up fun facts about the airport. “For example, the train tunnels between terminals at the Denver airport have 5,280 propeller-like whirligigs in total—one for each foot of altitude for the mile-high city,” says Dr. Barchers.
24. Be patient with jet lag. If traveling internationally, be especially understanding when it comes to jet lag. If your child has a meltdown, they are most likely overtired (they are not purposefully trying to annoy you—even if it seems that way).
25. Avoid arguments about what you will do each day by planning a schedule in advance. “Give family members opportunities to weigh in before the trip,” says Dr. Barchers. Of course you’ll have the flexibility to change it, but winging it every day can be a lot.
26. Schedule in down time, and maybe even down days. Sometimes the best days are spent sitting by the hotel pool.
27. Be open. When things aren’t going well, explain to your kids that things are tough in that moment and that you are doing your best. “While in Madrid, I couldn’t find my printed train tickets, and I couldn’t get my digital tickets to download,” recalls Dr. Barchers. “As the minutes passed, and no one in the station offices could help, I finally told the grandkids we’d go to the train and hoped that a conductor would help. He did, which was a lesson in both problem solving and trusting in the kindness of the staff.”