Your October horoscope is here, and it’s time to reflect on your relationships, says an astrologer

Scorpio, the Libra solar eclipse on the 2nd is giving you all the “retreat and recharge” vibes. This month is about stepping back and letting go of anything that’s draining your energy—think of it as your own personal Eat, Pray, Love journey, even if a spontaneous trip isn’t exactly in your budget.

The Aries full moon on the 17th hits your daily grind, so by mid-month, make sure you’re finding balance between work, play, and wellness. Yes, you love to be the star of the show at work, but make sure it doesn’t come at the expense of your workout goals or mental health. You deserve to take time for all your priorities!

Then, when the Sun enters your sign on the 22nd, it’s your time to shine. You can expect a burst of energy, and with romantic Venus in your sign, too, everyone seems to be looking your way.